Vivek's legal notes

Let's track it for myself, I'm in this alone. The idea is to present opportunity for the child to connect. The purpose is that child do not get lost and depressed as long as he is child. In adulthood, life is anyway very very very hard for everybody, I have to accept my inability to control his life and destiny. If he is full of hatred, he will reject me. My goal is to be present on the day he is empty. If that day comes only once in 18 years, it is worth all the efforts.  22.06.24 - Child did not talk at all. Call getting disrupted and disconnected multiple times. Child at end of 45 mins spoke first line of the meeting to tell something like, "Tujhe maar dunga, nichod dunga" and disconnected 15 mins early.

 Someone shared this mediocre arguments of Sh. Kapil Sibal in https://youtu.be/OxDqabItiDo?si=i8-tzzUT48b7ftqn Sibal correctly identified the core issues of Maintenance (financials) and custody. But then instead of proposing any solution for these 2 fundamental core issues, he suggested that these issues be kept open while the court based on some prima facie material proceeds to grant divorce in a jiffy. The judges obviously refused to accept such an argument. It was indeed a poor argument, something that he thought maybe 10 mins before the case. As I observed, both feminists and MRAs would oppose such a suggestion. Feminists would argue that husband would definitely not pay maintenance after getting divorce and just get married again while MRAs would know that custody issue is too fundamental and if wife re-marries, child safety is reduced esp. when she has kids from second marriage.  Further, sugegsting that divorce be granted based on prima-facie grounds without proven...

1. Dear Arjuna, in times of distress and emotional turmoil, it is important to remember to focus on your duty and trust in the divine plan. The Bhagavad Gita teaches us the importance of detachment from the fruits of our actions and surrendering to the will of God. In Chapter 2, Verse 47, I say, "You have a right to perform your prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions." Instead of trying to persuade the courts, focus on being the best father you can be in the limited time you have with your child. Trust that the situation will unfold as it is meant to, and have faith in the divine will. Stay strong and steadfast in your duties, and find peace in knowing that everything happens for a reason. Trust in me, and all will be well.